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Residential Treatment of Personality Disorders at CooperRiis

The residential treatment of personality disorders — long-term patterns of thinking, feeling, and behaviors that are unstable and inflexible personality characteristics that often hinder a person in specific ways — is always ‘person’ first at CooperRiis.

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Treatment for Personality Disorders

Person-Centered Care

For a resident diagnosed with Avoidant Personality Disorder, we know to take small, incremental steps toward fostering connection and providing a warm, accepting experience. Person-centered care is the guiding principle. For a resident with a diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder, our partnership might focus on emotional regulation. Practices that support emotional regulation, such as mindfulness, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), personal therapy, yoga, and structured work, might become core to a person’s recovery, depending on personal preferences.

Physical Health

We have found it essential to build a strong foundation of physical health. Through healthy eating and sleeping habits, regular exercise, and mindfulness practices, persons with personality challenges typically experience growth and healing. We get to know our residents’ overall health and then work on healthy habits. For most, this holistic wellness approach is a significant change from previous treatments. At CooperRiis, our attention is on wellness and possibility rather than concentration on personality diagnoses or diagnoses of illness.

Joining a Community

For residents to have success at CooperRiis, they must be able to function in our open community. We are a voluntary, non-crisis setting and do not operate with locked doors. We work with people diagnosed with personality disorders who are ready and able to take advantage of what we offer. Many of the residents in our program have had some treatment for symptoms of a personality disorder and are sufficiently ready to build a fulfilling life.


Medication optimization with the fewest side effects is our goal for each of our residents. Residents are fully involved in this process by keeping us apprised of how they feel and if their symptoms have subsided. We always strive for a sustainable solution. The resident’s overall quality of life should improve, along with symptom reduction. Our goal is for the medication to work long-term for the resident, with the fewest symptoms and side effects possible.

In addition to prescription medication, we also utilize supplements such as vitamins, minerals, and plant extracts to get the best results for our residents. Melatonin, for example, works just as well for some people as prescription sleeping pills, without the disturbing side effects.

Medication has been found to be helpful in tempering the symptoms of 10 personality disorders. For example, medication helps to stabilize the mood and emotions of those diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder and may help to reduce fear and anxiety in those with Avoidant Personality Disorder.

Person-Centered Care

We want to know people as a whole person, and not only for how they experience difficulties. And since symptoms of personality challenges differ and range from mild to severe, our goal is to help all our residents build a life that is meaningful and purposeful. We want to know what they envision as a happy life and tailor our approach accordingly.

The Dream Statement

All our residents write or articulate a Dream Statement when joining us at CooperRiis. By writing down their hopes and dreams for the future, a  residents’ goal becomes their roadmap. We empower each person to take ownership of their recovery journey. The Dream Statement is a roadmap to turn to at any time. The Dream Statement reminds residents of the life they want to build for themselves and offers a purpose for the hard work they are doing to get well.

Using the Dream Statement, residents make smaller daily, weekly, and monthly goals. For example, if a resident diagnosed with Dependent Personality Disorder wants to start a business (Dream Statement), then a smaller goal would be to begin to keep a list of accomplishments in a journal. Over time, as this list gets longer, this resident may begin to recognize all the ways he or she can live in a more self-directed fashion. And may lead to trying new things and increased self-confidence steps to achieving the larger dream of opening a small business. Daily and weekly goals are connected back to the ‘Dream Statement’ so that the resident is always working toward valued goals.

Woman smiles and holds an adorable kitten at CooperRiis, which offers residential treatment of personality disorders and other mental health conditions

By setting small achievable goals and plans for the future, residents start feeling hope, hopeful that their lives can change.

The dream gets closer with each small step forward.

a wooden puzzle showing the seven domains of a whole, healthy person
The Seven Domains Enhanced Recovery Model by Sharon Young, Ph.D.

A Healing Community for the Whole Person

In addition to medication and supplementation, CooperRiis offers an array of evidence-based psychiatric services, individual psychotherapy, social opportunities, structured work, and holistic wellness coaching. We treat the whole person and address every facet of the resident’s life through:

Our residents work with a multidisciplinary recovery team, comprised of representatives with expertise in the above domains. Because every person is different, some domains will receive more emphasis than others. An extraordinarily conscientious person, for instance, may receive support to enjoy more leisure and relaxation.

Our program helps residents build new habits, find balance, and practice new behaviors. The daily structure is calming and helps reduce distress. Healing modalities such as mindfulness meditation, yoga, and therapy bring calm to emotional storms and turmoil.

Family Education and Support

The resident’s family is an essential part of their treatment team at CooperRiis. Family support of someone with mental illness can reduce re-hospitalization by up to 75 percent over three years (SAMHSA). Our families are also in need of recovery, support, and the tools to care for their loved ones. Strong families help support healthy recoveries.

Although we strongly encourage family participation, the resident guides and informs our communications with family members. We encourage our residents to reach out to their families in healthy and beneficial ways.

Each resident has a family liaison, a Recovery Coordinator, who communicates with family members regularly. Since bipolar disorder can cause disruptions and stress for the family, family members may also benefit from professional resources.

Some of the ways we support families are:

  • Each resident has a family liaison/Recovery Coordinator
  • Educating families about how they can best support their loved one
  • Regular family meetings
  • Family education weekends twice a year on our campus
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Social and Community Connectedness

The community aspect of our program is central for those struggling with personality disorders because it prepares our residents to be with the people in their lives in a new way. Personality disorders often contribute to problems in relationships, so being in a supportive and non-judgmental social environment can help people experiment with changes in behavior. If someone has an emotional outburst or becomes rigid, there is an opportunity to learn more about what the person needs to heal and grow.

Purpose, Productivity, and Fulfillment

Residents spend most of their time at CooperRiis on a work crew, which provides purposeful activity and an opportunity to be in community. Work crews give structure to a resident’s day, and while working, the resident receives guidance and support from other people in the community. The resident also learns transferable skills that they can take with them. There are several crews – kitchen, garden, woodshop, animals, greenhouse – all of which contribute to the community.

It is often gratifying for those diagnosed with a personality disorder to see that the work they do is appreciated and matters. People often seek treatment at CooperRiis because they are having difficulties in relationships and are often isolated. By doing something beneficial, such as harvesting vegetables for the community, a resident directly witnesses the positive impact.

Is Treatment for Personality Disorders at CooperRiis Effective?

The CooperRiis’ model of recovery works. Data collected during a ten-year study shows individual recovery progress within the CooperRiis residential program based upon therapeutic community principles and a Seven Domains Enhanced Recovery Model (Young, Schactman and Snyder, 2014).

Results demonstrate recovery progress on many different domains of wellness in addition to symptom reduction, including gains in functioning, emotional well-being, a sense of purpose, and hopefulness.

Residents routinely make gains in emotional well-being and hopefulness. Over 80 percent of our residents pursue employment, volunteer service, or school while in our community programs, and increasingly manage independent living.

Our program helps residents achieve their best life by tailoring our services to their needs. Just as histories vary, recovery does as well. We honor each person’s journey by trusting them to work with us toward their best state of health and happiness.

2019 Alumni Survey Results

1 %

are engaged in either competitive employment, volunteering, or going to school.

1 %
are living independently with roommates or on their own.
1 %
report they have had no psychiatric hospitalizations.

Frequently Asked Questions

Personality is the combination of qualities and attributes that form a person’s distinctive character. The way an individual behaves thinks, and feels makes them different from other people. Personality is also shaped by a person’s background, experiences, environment, and inherited traits.

Personality disorders are long-term patterns of thinking, feeling, and behaving that are maladaptive and inflexible. These patterns markedly differ from social norms and cause serious problems at work and in relationships, often manifesting in at least two of the following ways:

  • Cognition and thinking, including distortions in our views of ourselves or others
  • Emotional expression
  • Interpersonal functioning, especially how we relate to others
  • Impulse control and how we manage feelings

Normal traits that have become extreme often characterize personality problems. For example, being conscientious is generally the desired work attribute. Someone whose work devotion, however, that comes at the expense of all else can experience hardship. While extra work projects and commitments often do arise for people, the difference is the ability to adapt flexibly. An overly conscientious person may be unable or unwilling to attend flexibly to other areas of her or his life, such as friendships and leisure. These areas suffer.

Extreme conscientiousness is one way to describe Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD), an adaptation that often feels like the way things should be for the person with such traits. It often takes a crisis, such as a spouse leaving, a failure at work, or other hardship for someone to recognize the limits of an adaptation. After all, for the person afflicted with Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder, ‘symptoms’ such as obsessive preoccupation with minor details or work output don’t seem like symptoms at all. They feel normal. These traits define who they are.

Note: The main differences between people with OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) and OCPD is that people with OCD are bothered by their symptoms. They do not view their symptoms, such as intrusive thoughts about germs or compulsive behaviors like hand washing, as desirable. They are uncomfortable with the way they are forced to live because of OCD.

The Ten Personality Disorders and Their Clusters

There are 10 specific types of personality disorders. People can have more than one personality disorder or trait of different personality disorders. For example, Borderline Personality Disorder and Narcissistic Personality Disorder can be diagnosed together. There are three clusters of personality disorders.

Personality Disorder Clusters
Cluster A

The three personality disorders in this cluster share distorted thinking, social awkwardness, and social withdrawal as symptoms.

  • Paranoid PD
  • Schizoid PD
  • Schizotypal PD
Cluster B

The four personality disorders in this cluster share difficulties with impulse control and emotional regulation.

  • Antisocial PD
  • Borderline PD
  • Histrionic PD
  • Narcissistic PD

Cluster C The three personality disorders in this cluster share a high level of fear and anxiety. People in this cluster need lots of reassurance from other people.

  • Avoidant PD
  • Dependent PD
  • Obsessive-Compulsive PD

Cluster A

Paranoid PD is characterized by:

  • generalized mistrust and suspicion of others
  • paranoia
  • rarely confide in others
  • misinterpret others’ behavior as malicious
  • looking for ‘clues’ that validate their fears
Schizoid PD is characterized by:
  • indifference to social relationships and relationship avoidance
  • indifferent to praise
  • limited range of emotional expression and emotionally cold and detached
  • lack of close friends and no desire for close relationships
Schizotypal PD is characterized by:
  • disturbing thoughts and behavior
  • unusual or odd beliefs (aliens, UFOs, etc.) and fears
  • odd behavior and/or speech
  • difficulty making/keeping friendships
  • suspiciousness and/or paranoia

Cluster B

Antisocial PD is characterized by:
  • antisocial behavior
  • externalization and minimization of responsibility
  • deceitfulness
  • impulsive and risk-taking behavior
  • hostility and aggression
  • lack of restraint
  • general discontent
Borderline PD is characterized by:
  • heightened reactivity and sensitivity
  • emotional dysregulation and volatility, including emotional reactions that go to extremes
  • crisis-prone
  • self-destructive behavior
  • difficulty managing slights
  • feelings of worthlessness and insecurity
  • impulsivity
  • impaired social relationships and pattern of unstable intense relationships
  • mood swings
  • intense fear of abandonment
Histrionic PD is characterized by:
  • needs to be the center of attention
  • intense and dramatic
  • thinks relationships are closer than they are
  • easily influenced by others
  • emotions change rapidly
  • deeply felt insecurity
Narcissistic PD is characterized by:
  • preoccupied with own interests disregard for others’ feelings
  • unable to empathize
  • bolster themselves through praise and admiration of others
  • excessive need for admiration
  • inability to handle any criticism
  • a sense of entitlement

Cluster C

Avoidant PD is characterized by:
  • extremely shy
  • self-isolation
  • fear of ridicule, criticism, and rejection
  • overly concerned with looking foolish
  • low threshold for criticism
  • low self-esteem
Dependent PD is characterized by:
  • no trust in their own abilities and lack of self-confidence
  • emotionally dependent on other people
  • spend great effort trying to please others
  • difficulty being alone
  • needy and clinging behavior
  • fear of separation and/or abandonment
  • inability to make decisions without help from others
  • devastated when relationships end
  • oversensitivity to criticism
  • inability to start projects or tasks
  • tolerate mistreatment and abuse in order to stay in a relationship
Obsessive-compulsive PD is characterized by:
  • a concern with orderliness and excessive attention to detail
  • perfectionism
  • need to be in control
  • excessive devotion to work
  • finds it difficult to relax and enjoy leisure time
  • overly meticulous planner

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